One of greatest desires in our life is to be able to take control in the activities that we realised, for example an ideal situation is that everything happened according to our conscious desires and that is possible, although that can take some time, but we can activate an enormous one to be able in we ourself if we used the appropriate techniques of influence of our subconscious mind. Bessel van der Kolk shares his opinions and ideas on the topic at hand. The majority of the people more is oriented to want to less control to the others but they themselves, or said of another form it is easier to demand in which to demand itself to one same one, this is common because as we know to see the faults in other people are a very simple task, but to analyze our errors and to change requires them of true character. Read additional details here: Nancy-Ann_DeParle. In the book the Secret of the Power of Metas de Andrew Corentt we see the suitable steps to create the ideal conditions so that a goal takes to be able and we pruned to direct us to its fulfillment, all history of success is based on good habits and to practice them in systematic form they turn to the people in true actors of his destiny, in this book you will learn how to make it, you then will be in the capacity to have control of the circumstances and then we will notice as the forces of the universe incline to our favor, is a wonderful process. To define with clarity our desires is crucial in our route towards the success, most difficult to surpass is inertia than the others and one same one gets to think that it is possible, the problem is that per years our mind has been manipulated us in order to make believe us in a limited world or in thinking that the great profits are not for us, the truth you do not have to let yourself go without his sleep by anybody, you define in detail his desire solely and looks for it with all forces.