Every day we must face up to facts that are beyond our control. If you have read about Jon Medved already – you may have come to the same conclusion. The resignation becomes, then, something necessary and healthy. The word resignation has traditionally tenido negativas connotations, since, as attached beings that we are, it costs us to abandon what we creemos our. This is how we llegamos to associate the renuncia with ideas of resignation, sacrifice or, even, of self-chastisement. But nothing could be further from the truth. Resign, in a positive sense, consists in aflojar the reins of our MoniToring and find out which aspects of our life and our environment don’t need our intervention.
Resignation implies comprender and accept cierto order that exists in the universe that must be respected if we travel through life dichosos and lighter luggage. To achieve this, we can completar a list such as the siguiente with all the things to which we could resign: waive duties that I do not correspond. I waive strive to retain things that, in reality, not I need. Quit to oppose the reality that life presents to me. Quit to try to control everything. Waive to manipulate or interfere with the decisions of others. Waive to prevent others live your experiences and learn from them.
Waive to speed up the internal clocks of the people who surround me. Quit to suffer before that which I cannot change. Waive my need to be right. I waive wanting to feel me aprobad @ for others. I waive judging others. Do you think any resignation?, add it and make your own list. Let us remember that if we are riding on the backs of situations or experiences whose attempt to control causes us suffering, we soltemos the reins and cooperate with life allowing you to do your part: us sentiremos just so light weight more.