The best way to "drop" is to take 100% responsibility for the reality we create for ourselves. I use Ho'oponopono tools to "clean" these memories and thoughts constantly, both consciously and unconsciously. A very good tool that is "Thank you" and "I love you" to these memories and thus freeing them. What you resist, persists. However, the process can be much more simple if we work with our subconscious mind (our inner child), because this part is our subconscious mind is the part that holds these memories. Therefore, it is the inner child, or as they call Unihipili in Hawaiian, the party manifests our reality. It is crucial to develop a strong loving relationship of trust with our inner child in order to change our reality.
Our inner child can make this trip much easier. Remember it is this part of you that suffers, not you. This is us hungry or think you can not survive unless you eat vanilla ice cream! Once we begin to "drop" these memories of repetition and begin to see the results, choose better. It's a chain reaction. When we do, we feel so good and proud of ourselves we move forward with other things we had on hold. We continue to be better each time, we're unstoppable. So how much do you want? Are you willing to do what it takes? We have to work hard to get what we want, but we choose to do Ho'oponopono and really enjoy the trip! You can find The Easiest Way.
I noted that happiness depends on your point of view of each one on his own, influenced both the point of view on the happiness of those more. Because deep down the echo to be happy means to many. Because it has to involve others? In other words, I realized that my happiness in relation to myself and the other is relative. I say this because I noticed that the views of each on happiness is different. To say: I can not create a new theory on happiness without having to mix the opinion and the views of many. In this case, the only thing left is to reject me in a way the opinion of others about happiness n generating or not, and I seek their own way, with my rules and regulations but not annoying and does no damage form around me. It s what it sounds fatal and no body, but my happiness is relative, and if things go around here I go for happiness. Or at least this form.
I can not allow someone to change their point of view the state of my own perception and value of happiness. At the time we leave to someone who believes their opinions on happiness, what we do is to stop other indirect opinion that we change our way of looking at happiness. To change something. To give a different value. Summary: to give value. In the background is changing me the value I put the time and I decided to be happy.
Or not. At the time that someone or something decides that this is a time felice or not done in the background is nothing more than limit the right to be happy in your way, when you feel the urge. But this does not mean anything bad about any part, because we always have the need to comment on something, with the need to correct or help. Or not. Individual happiness is individual. I the right to suffer or be happy when we get the desire is just as individuals, and this need not be called selfishness. It is simply the pleasure of deciding when we want to be happy or not. Being selfish in the sense that you stop mourn the other incluidote to yourself too, does not mean that you break the problems or to import or do you let some of the problems of women. Just allow yourself a break to all. But very deep. Dorel Ene