The majority of divorces involve a bit of drama, mainly when it comes of infidelity by the spouse, which is usually traumatic, especially for women. Divorce by the husband’s infidelity is often cause of the abandonment syndrome in women, which is not more than a pattern of behavior by a husband leaving his wife in the middle of nowhere, without having had any apparent reason for divorce. After a sudden departure of her husband, the woman can display aggressive and angry. Often, the husband moves in with another woman and the wife remains baffled and totally devastated. Without a doubt, this will be the decisive event in his life, and although recovery is a struggle, many women find interesting and positive aspects of his life. Characteristics of the syndrome of abandonment the reasons given by the husband to divorce seem exaggerated, absurd, trivial or fraudulent.
The husband behavior changes so much that seems his wife has become a cruel and vengeful stranger. The former husband not He shows no remorse after the divorce, but rather blamed his wife and describes himself as a victim. The ex-husband had an affair and moved with another woman. The husband makes no attempt to help his ex-wife, either financially or emotionally, as if the positive that had for her were completely extinct. To recover from this trauma after the divorce, will need much more than time, because some therapists do not well understand this problem and advise patients to go to dance tango or simply going out with her friends and meet more people. You can however, that this does not contribute positively to overcome divorce.
Steps to recover from divorce and abandonment recognizes that your life is really more than a marriage, thinks about the future and celebrates the individual time. Stop trying to get recognition and the apologies that you deserve. There is pain. You know that what you felt was true and real, but few people will understand it. Not with your husband or by trying to know what te obsessions you did wrong so that it would, nor lose sleep for that reason. If you have thoughts that are out of control, think of them as if they were a dog that barks, tied behind a fence, so may do you no harm. Go ahead. Don’t think that you are alone, or isolate you. Find people that you can understand, give you positive advice, encourage you, and help you out of this problem. There are certain friends that you may confuse and that rather than help you through your divorce sink you more. It avoids that kind of people. If you feel eager to not be able to recover your divorce, keep in mind that this not only affects you, but your children also. Here is one more reason to exit from this emotional slump.